Simple Birth Plan Checklist
A birth plan is a document written by you that outlines your choices and preferences during labor, delivery, and postpartum. It helps communicate to nurses and health practitioners what you'd like to happen in both routine care and unexpected situations.
But as Christian moms, we know that no matter how detailed our plan is, God is the ultimate planner (Proverbs 19:21). So where does that leave us?
Should you still write a birth plan? Is it necessary if God already knows what’s going to happen?
Let’s dive into it together—with faith, wisdom, and a little preparation.
In this post, you’ll learn:
Why you might want to write a birth plan
Whether it’s actually necessary
If it’s worth the effort—will anyone even read it?
My personal experience with birth plans
And finally, how to write one (with a handy free printable!)
Why You Should Write a Birth Plan
A birth plan helps communicate your wishes without needing to talk through contractions (which, trust me, you won’t want to do). It gives your nurses and birth team a chance to respect your preferences without constant direction from you.
It’s a chance to be prepared—and preparation is biblical!
“The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance…”
— Proverbs 21:5
Even if you never bring it to the hospital, the act of writing one helps you make prayerful decisions in advance. Talk through it with your spouse, midwife, or doula. It’s a beautiful opportunity to invite them into your hopes for the birth God is knitting together (Psalm 139:13–14).
That said, birth is unpredictable. Nurses and doctors may have to make quick decisions to keep you and baby safe. So hold your birth plan with open hands.
“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.”
— Proverbs 19:21
In other words? Plan with peace, not perfection.
Do You Need to Write a Birth Plan?
Is it required? No. But it is helpful.
Writing a birth plan helps clarify your preferences, especially if you’re delivering in a hospital where every staff member might not know you personally. Even in a faith-filled environment, communication still matters!
If you’re working with a supportive midwife or doula, they’ll likely ask questions that align with your values and desires. Still, having a simple birth plan in writing ensures that you—and your God-given voice—are heard clearly.
“Let all things be done decently and in order.”
— 1 Corinthians 14:40
Need help getting started? Don’t stress—there’s a FREE printable at the end of this post. Fill it out in just a few minutes and tuck it in your hospital bag.
Will My Birth Plan Be Read and Followed?
Honestly? It depends.
Some hospital staff have seen birth plans that are long, rigid, or demanding—and unfortunately, that can give the wrong impression. But we can choose a different approach.
Keep it simple. Write it with humility. And most of all, keep grace at the center.
A great way to open your birth plan is with a short note:
“My top priority is a safe and healthy delivery for me and my baby. This plan reflects my preferences, but I trust God and my care team if things need to change.”
That kind of posture can open hearts, not just doors.
“Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”
— Colossians 3:12
Did My Birth Plan Work?
At first, I didn’t think I needed one. I figured I’d just “wing it” and let things happen naturally. But my midwife gently encouraged me to write something down—and I’m so glad I did.
We went over it together, and I felt so much more peace knowing she and my husband were on the same page.
Here’s the kicker: I forgot the actual birth plan at home.
But because I had written it and shared it with my support team and my husband, they knew how to advocate for me when things didn’t go as expected.
God still had everything under control—He always does—but He also gave me wisdom through preparation. (James 1:5)
Mamas, your husband may know your preferences, but let’s be real: they might be too overwhelmed in the moment to remember details. A printed paper is a gift to everyone in the room.
How to Write a Birth Plan
Pro Tip: Keep. It. Simple. Your nurses will thank you—and you’re more likely to see it followed.
Writing your birth plan might feel overwhelming, but don’t worry—I’ve got you covered. Just pop in your email below and I’ll send a free printable straight to your inbox!
It covers all the basics in a clear, faith-centered way.
Want to create your own from scratch? Go for it! There are tons of templates online, or you can start with ours and make it your own.
So now that you’ve got the scoop…
Are you planning to write a birth plan? Or have you used one before?
What was your experience like? Did it help? Let me know in the comments below!
Whatever you choose, remember this:
God goes before you into that delivery room.
He’s holding you and your baby every step of the way.
“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”
— Exodus 14:14
With love,
Celina